Is SHE Cheating? - Many Unsuspecting Husbands Find Out Too Late
Is SHE Cheating? - Many Unsuspecting Husbands Find Out Too Late
By Ruth Houston
Couples therapists report a 50% increase in female infidelity. The cover
story in the current issue of Newsweek magazine is all about cheating wives:
"The New Infidelity - From Office Affairs to Internet Hook-Ups, More Wives
Are Cheating Too." Yet, as widespread as female infidelity has become, many
unsuspecting husbands have no idea their wives are having an affair. They
often find themselves in a situation like David in the Newsweek article,
who found out his wife was cheating the day she told him she wanted a divorce.
Unsuspecting husbands are often surprised when they learn about a cheating
wife's extramarital affair. But, the stark reality is that if a husband isn't
familiar with the signs of infidelity, by the time he finds out his wife
is cheating, it's usually too late.
Women Don't Become Cheaters Overnight
Yet many of the signs may have been there all along. A woman doesn't become
a cheating wife overnight. Infidelity develops in stages. In almost every
case, there are numerous telltale signs along the way. In fact, many of the
warning signs of impending infidelity are evident long before the physical
act of infidelity actually takes place.
Know How to Spot the Telltale Signs
The husband who knows how to spot the signs of infidelity has a fighting
chance to save his marriage. He won't end up like John LeSage in the Newsweek
article who was devastated when he came home one day and found that his wife
of 24 years had disappeared. John said, "I would have done a lot things
differently, but I never got the chance." This loving, but unsuspecting husband
never knew his marriage was in jeopardy because he was unfamiliar with the
warning signs.
Identifying the Problem
The first step in solving a problem is knowing that the problem exists. There
are certain telltale signs that serve as a wake-up call that a marriage is
in trouble. A husband doesn't need to hire a private detective or invest
in sophisticated surveillance equipment to find out if his wife is having
an affair. If he knows what to look for, all he needs are his eyes, his ears
and his personal knowledge of his wife. Knowing what to look for is the key.
21 Categories of Telltale Signs
There are 21 categories of telltale signs, with numerous signs in each category.
Of course, no can be expected to know them all. That's why it makes sense
to invest in a relationship reference book like Is He Cheating on You? in
order to become more knowledgeable about the warning signs. After all, most
families have a medical reference book in their home to alert them to the
signs and symptoms of health and medical problems. The same thing applies
to marital problems like infidelity.
Universal Telltale Signs Some of the signs of infidelity documented in Is He Cheating on
You? - 829 Telltale Signs apply exclusively to cheating men. But many of
the signs are universal and apply to both cheating husbands and cheating
wives. Additional information about infidelity can be found at
www.IsHeCheatingOnYou.com
Although the website is primarily directed to women, about a third of the
e-mails received come from men seeking advice about various telltale signs.
So What Should a Husband Do?
With infidelity affecting 80% of all marriages, the husband who values his
marriage would do well to become familiar with the warning signs. He should
always strive to be aware of his wife's feelings and keep abreast of the
things that are going on in her life. It's not about being overly suspicious.
It's about keeping a finger on the pulse of his marriage. Forewarned is
forearmed. This way, he'll be equipped to recognize even the most subtle
telltale signs. The future of his marriage may well depend on his ability
to spot those telltale signs in time.
Ruth Houston is the author of "Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale
Signs". For more information about the book or about infidelity,
visit
http://www.IsHeCheatingOnYou.com
or
http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com
To receive a FREE Special Report which describes each of the 21
Categories of Telltale Signs, send an e-mail to
InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with
“21 categories” in the subject line.
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